Developmental Questions
View Printer Friendly Page
Introduction
Your baby has Down syndrome. Just like all other babies he can’t walk, talk or feed
himself yet.
The fact is, when he is older, he should be able to do all those things – providing
he gets the support he needs.
With the proper support he has a good chance to learn to read and write, go to a
mainstream school, establish friendships, pursue interests, get a job and live
a semi-independent adult life.
How will our child grow and develop?
Every child grows and learns. Whether a child has Down syndrome or not, children vary
in their rate of development. Children with Down syndrome usually follow the
same pattern of skill development, while perhaps taking longer to achieve a
skill.
The process of development is divided into: gross motor, fine motor, language,
cognitive, social and self help skills. All these areas are linked to one
another and progress in one area affects progress in others. Factors such as
muscle tone and general health may affect the rate of skills development.
The average height of a child with Down syndrome is less than that of the rest of
the population. A controlled diet and regular exercise prevents any excessive
weight gain. Their bodies mature in the same way however, and they too will
reach puberty in their early teens.
Youngsters with Down syndrome acquire new skills and develop individual talents as they
grow, benefiting from all life experiences as well as their inner abilities.
People with Down syndrome can gain physical and mental skills throughout their
lives. The ability level of children and adults vary considerably, but the
average rate of progress is slower than in ordinary people.
How can we care for and stimulate our child?
Stimulation is very important in the development of our babies. It simply means encouraging
your baby to become aware of you, the rest of your family, his surroundings and
the day to day household happenings.
You as the parents are usually in the best position to care for and stimulate your
child, especially if you are willing to accept assistance in developing your
parental skills.
Learning for the baby begins as soon as he is born. Our babies tend to be quieter and
cry less than other babies. It is important not to leave him alone in his cot,
staring at a featureless ceiling. When he is awake he needs exercise for his
body and his mind. Make his surroundings bright, colourful, mobile and
sometimes even noisy. Contact a Toy Library (numbers on page) for ideas.
Encourage eye contact by talking and singing to the baby during feeding, playing and any
interaction.
As new parents of a child with special needs, there are a number of services available
to assist your child in his development. Early stimulation (early intervention)
is a good start to planned assistance for your child. These programmes could
include the services of speech therapists, physiotherapists and occupational
therapists.
General rules that apply to all stimulation or early intervention are:
- Readiness: Look for signs of readiness, e.g. the baby
who holds toys and puts them in his mouth can be given a baby rusk to hold
and chew on.
- Repetition: Whatever you’re trying to teach your
child will have to be repeated several times before he grasps what is
expected of him.
- Praise: Be generous with your praise, especially when
your baby really deserves it.
- Time: Allow sufficient time for your child to
experiment. It may take him longer to get a task done on his own but
trying to do something for himself is the only way a child can really
learn.
- Confidence: Be relaxed when you are handling the
baby.
The recommendations regarding the stimulation of the development of your baby
discussed in this booklet are very brief, yet sufficient for the first few
months.
The exercises are only meant as a general guide. If your child only uses the
exercises in this book, it would help a great deal if his progress is assessed
every three to six months by a professional working in the area of early
stimulation (e.g. speech, occupational and physio-therapists). You will be able
to get practical guidance in the form of
- A few basic exercises;
- Some toys to use constructively;
- Some games to play, with clear instructions;
- Feeding, dressing and general care tips; and
- Guidelines on how to detect any secondary disability.
How can we develop our baby’s gross motor skills?It is advisable to follow a home programme or to contact a physiotherapist who
specialises in Down syndrome. If this is not possible, here are some general
guidelines of the main principles of development in this area:
Begin with head control, proceed down the back and to the legs, from the centre-line
outwards. Generally progress from the larger to the smaller body parts (e.g.
arms to fingers).
Head control:
- Your baby needs to lie on his back, stomach and sides
during the course of the day (from birth)
- When your baby lies on his stomach he may object, but
these objections take the form of movements that are ultimately
beneficial. When the baby is in this position the surface under him must
be smooth and firm. If the baby lies limply, tickle him with your fingers
or, if he is naked after bath time, stroke his whole body with a soft hair
brush. This is good for sensory stimulation (from birth).
- Lay your baby on his back on your knees or on a
smooth surface. Take him by the shoulders and raise him gently until the
weight of his head can be felt. At first his head will hang limply and the
lifting will have to be slow and limited. After a few days some tension
will begin to show in the neck muscles and he should gradually begin to
lift his head. As soon as he does this he should be laid back for a rest
after which the exercise should be repeated twice more. This exercise
should also be varied by holding your baby slightly to the side and
getting him to lift from this position as well (from 6 weeks).
- When carrying your baby, hold him against you, facing
away from you so that he must lift his head and maintain that position to
see things (from 6 weeks). See photo 2.
- Sit your baby in front of you, holding him by his
shoulders. Tilt him from side to side, back and forth and in various
directions to encourage head control. As your baby’s neck becomes
stronger, you can rock him in different positions. You should deliberately
support his head less as he grows older and stronger (from 8 weeks). See
photo 3.
- Place your baby in the middle of the room on his
stomach. Walk past and around him so that he must lift his head to see you
(from 6-8 weeks).
- Lay your baby on his stomach, propped up on his
forearms. Introduce a toy within his field of vision and say “look Peter”,
as you begin squeaking and moving the toy. Gradually raise the toy so that
he will have to follow it with his eyes and lift his head. Vary the
objects and give plenty of praise and reward (from 8 weeks – 3 months).
Place a rolled towel or blanket under his chest for
support, if necessary. Remove this as he becomes stronger.
- Place your baby on his stomach on a large, slightly
deflated beach ball. Support him securely under his arms or at his waist
and roll him gently from side to side and back and forth. A friend or
family member can hold a toy in front of him to encourage him to raise his
head and watch and move (from 8 weeks – 3 months). See photo 4.
Rolling:
- Encourage your baby to turn from side to back and
then from back to side again by introducing an interesting toy at his eye
level. Move the toy in the direction you wish him to move and, using your
free hand, physically move him by bending his leg (the leg opposite the
direction in which he is turning) and turning him to assume the desired
position. Once the leg and hip are in position, he will strain and move
his body (4-6 months). See photo 5.
- Lay your baby on a blanket on his stomach, then roll
him onto his back. He must push up from the forearm with his fingers open
(his hands must not be clenched). Gradually lift up one end of the
blanket, thus prompting him to roll over in a continuous movement. Prompt
him through the entire roll from his stomach to his back At the beginning
you must have to support the back of the head so that he does not bump it
when he rolls over and gets a fright (from 4 – 6 months).
Leg exercises: (best given when you change your baby’s nappy)
- Lay your baby on his back. Lift his feet one by one,
raising then about two inches (6cm) and letting then drop gently onto the
changing towel. The aim of this exercise is to get the child to make
conscious movements. Four times will suffice and as he grows stronger you
may raise his feet higher before letting them drop, so that he gains practice
in control (from birth).
- Hold your baby’s foot around the ankle, using your
thumb and forefinger. Tickle the sole of his foot from toe to heel. As his
foot draws back resist the movement by keeping your hand still. Exercise
both legs (from birth). See photo 6.
Sitting:
- Attempt to place your baby in a sitting position.
This position allows more scope for movement and play and permits him to
see well in three directions. As soon as his head control begins
improving, a baby relax chair will be necessary. There are various types
available on the market (use from 4 months).
- Your baby can be propped up in his pram or in a
corner of a lounge chair with cushions on his sides and something up
against his feet to stop him from sliding down. He can begin by sitting
fro short periods at a time. As his neck and back get stronger, the
sitting time should be increased. Small babies sometimes need a little
extra support at the sides of the head. Use folder nappies or a pram
cushion (from 5 months).
- Put your baby in his relax chair and inside the pram
or pushchair with the canopy attached. Toys can be hung from the canopy
for him to focus on and reach for. Toys that make a sound are useful.
Household articles can also be used. Variety, and not the cost of an item,
is important (from 3-4 months).
- To encourage your baby to kick, a string of pigeon
bells or rattles on a piece of elastic may be draped across his feet while
he is sitting in his chair. Two large rings (coloured bracelets), as well
as other noisy objects, may be threaded onto a string. Put his feet into
the rings so that the rattles make a noise when he moves his legs.
- Once your baby has good head control and his back is
strengthened, take a large blow-up swimming tube, sit him inside it with
his hands resting on the tube and his feet pushing against it. The tube
will also break his fall when he topples over.
How can we develop our baby’s fine motor skills? The main principles of development in this area are:
- Co-ordination between the eyes and hands leading to
planned movements, controlled by vision.
- Progress from using both hands to using one hand.
- Palmar grasp to fine control with fingers and thumb.
Eye-muscle control and eye movement:
- Hang large, bright pictures around the crib, e.g.
pages from magazines, wrapping paper, aluminium foil balls and calendar
pictures. Change frequently to avoid boredom.
- Hang mobiles over the cot and/or pram. Bought ones
with music are superb, but light ones that move in the breeze are just as
effective. The first mobile can also be changed from time to time by using
pieces of aluminium foil, tinsel and coloured paper.
- Introduce a bright, noisy object, e.g. rattle in the
baby’s line of vision and move it slowly from side to side. First his eyes
should follow the toy and then he should begin turning his head to follow
it. At first you may need to physically turn your baby’s head with your
hand to introduce the idea. Praise him for turning this head and wiggle
the toy for the reward. When this has been mastered, move the toy up and
down as well.
- Encourage personal eye contact with your baby.
Encourage him to look at your face and your eyes and to respond to your
voice.
Reaching and grasping:
- Hang mobiles, toys, etc. within easy reach.
- Hold out a toy in front of your baby’s hand.
Physically help him to reach for the toy and then help him to grasp it.
Change such toys frequently – varying the size, colour, shape, weight and
texture, in particular, is important. Many areas have toy libraries where
a large variety of toys can be borrowed for a small fee (see addresses on
page …).
- Take your baby’s hands, draw them to your face, run
them over your features, touch your hair, blow into the palms of his hands
and gently nibble the skin of his hands.
- Stroke the back of his hands from his finger tips
towards his shoulders to encourage him to open his hands.
- Let your baby play with one toy, teach him to hold
one toy with both hands, then give him two similar rattles, one to be held
in each hand, and teach him to bang them together. Encourage your baby to
hold his own feeding bottle. You will initially have to prop his hands in
position and support the weight of the bottle. As he becomes stronger, you
can reduce the amount of help.
- Toys attached (with suckers or elastic bands) to the tray
of a high chair are also useful.
How can we develop our baby’s social and self-help skills?The main principles of development in this area are:
- Progress from total dependence to increasing
independence in daily physical routines.
- An awareness of his own body and its actions.
- Satisfaction of his basic social needs.
Emotional and social needs:
- A sense of security engendered by physical contact is
vital for your baby’s emotional development. Cuddle and handle him firmly
and lovingly. Encourage members of the family to handle and talk to the
baby. Feeding and bath times should be pleasant occasions.
- During the first few weeks your baby may show very
little response, but it is very important that you maintain the habit of
talking and smiling at him. Regular encouragement in the form of a smiling
compliment whenever the baby makes a useful movement will encourage
repetition.
- Place you baby near you during family events, such as
meal times or TV time, when he is awake. Do not leave him lying in his
cot.
- Encourage your baby to respond to you, e.g. by
lifting an arm when you want to pick him up. See photo 7.
- Mirrors are the best toys for showing your baby him
own image and how his face changes when he smiles. Call him by his name.
See Photo 8.
- Play games with your baby like “Peek-a-boo”, “Clap
hands” – the baby holds onto your small finger while you clap, “Body
parts” – “Where is Jimmy’s nose?” Tickle his nose.
- Make sure that you take your baby out with you as
this will facilitate your emotional healing and acceptance. It also will
serve as stimulation for your baby to experience different surroundings.
- By not hiding
your baby but including him in family and community activities it will
help for future support and acceptance.
Feeding:Hunger is one of the first experiences your baby has outside the warmth and comfort of
the womb. When you satisfy his hunger (by breast or bottle feeding), your baby
knows that to be in his mother’s arms is all he needs to be at peace with the
world. You are establishing a relationship of trust and love what will affect
his whole life.
The physical contact between mother and baby ensures eye-to-eye and eye-to-mouth
concentration on the part of the baby. This is now regarded as an important
first step in communication.
Mothers are encouraged to try to breast-feed. Successful breast feeding does require
patience. You may want to seek help from your doctor, clinic, La Leche league
or Breast-feeding Association. The young baby’s sucking and swallowing ability
may be poorly developed, but will improve steadily. Do not lose courage and
remember that breast-feeding is the healthiest start you can give your baby in
life. Remember that whatever you eat or drink can affect your baby; thus stay
with healthy food. Drink fluids regularly, especially water, and try to stay
relaxed and calm.
The La Leche League is an international organisation and has pamphlets available on
the breast-feeding of babies with Down syndrome (see list of books on page 27
for more information).
If you cannot manage breast-feeding, bottle-feeding is a good substitute. Experiment with
size and type of the teat. If your baby has a poor sucking reflex, resist the
temptation to enlarge the hole in the teat. Rather cut a very small cross over
the existing hole with a sharp blade. Keep the baby upright when you are
feeding him because food can be inhaled into the lungs in small quantities
which could lead to later infections. Do not lay him down until you are certain
that he has broken most of his wind. Lying him down on his stomach often helps.
If your baby forms a seal with his lips and tongue around the teat, twist the bottle
and break the seal at intervals. A small hole can also be made at the top of
the bottle to let in air or teats with air holes could be bought.
Because your baby’s sucking ability may be weak initially, it may be necessary to
persevere longer than usual to feed him. The child with Down syndrome will
often have to be woken for his night feeds. This is very important to keep
blood sugar levels up. He may not wake and cry like other babies. Plan these
feeding sessions carefully as a mother’s sleep is also very important.
Keep a good check on his weight to see that he is getting sufficient food in the early
weeks. Additional help for feeding problems can be sought from a speech
therapist.
After the age of one, the baby can be weaned from the bottle. Experiment with various
kinds of cups. Those mostly used are small plastic cups of feeding cups. Begin
with small amounts in the cup. Cups with a straw are very good as the sucking
action helps to strengthen the muscles in and around the mouth. Use 250ml Fruit
juices once solids have started to start of as you can squeeze the box to aid
the child/baby.
Don’t mistake a tongue-thrusting action for rejection. This often continues for
longer in a baby with Down syndrome. Persist and experiment in regards eating
and drinking.
Chewing should be encouraged before the age of one. If put off too long, the baby might
fear choking and then it will be very difficult to wean him to solids. Start to
wean your baby onto solids as you would for any baby.
By the age of two, most babies should be eating and drinking by themselves fairly
competently.
Breast-fed babies should be encouraged to drink from a cup so that a variety of liquids
can be added to their diet. They usually do not take to a teat or a variety of
liquids in their mouths easily.
Spoon-feeding can usually be begun at three months. Try to avoid sweet tasting foods. Once
porridge, fruit and vegetables have been introduced, try to offer him a variety
in order to avoid later fussiness. Once your baby can swallow very smooth
foods, introduce more textured food, e.g. vegetables mashed with a fork.
An inability to retain food is quite common, as is erratic weight gain. However,
if there are any signs of dehydration, failure to thrive or any persistent
tendency to regurgitate semi-solids, you should contact your doctor
immediately, as in some cases intestinal blockages may be present.
Dietary supplements may be introduced fairly early. The dosage should always be in
accordance with the specific preparation instructions.
Allergies to milk are very common. However, by the age of two, these feeding problems are
usually much less.
It is often noted that the bowel functions of children with Down syndrome are
abnormal, although this can be unduly exaggerated. However, irregular bowel
movements do sometimes occur and, if persistent, should be mentioned to your
doctor. If your baby does not pass stools easily, it could help to handle him
more often, and so strengthen his stomach muscles and increase his general
activity, or consult your clinic for dietary changes. Remember that breast-fed
babies do not have daily stools.
Teething:There is often an irregular pattern of teething. The first tooth should appear
between 5 to 21 months (on average at 15 months). Use standard analgesic gels
for teething problems.
During the first few months sodium or calcium fluoride, dissolved in water or milk,
can be given to promote healthy teeth formation in your baby, especially if
there is a deficiency of these substances in the local water supply. These
substances are added to certain milk formulas, and you should check to this on
the tin before adding it to your baby’s diet.
How can we develop our baby’s communication skills?The main principle of development in this area is:
Hearing sounds and random vocalisation
- Expose your baby to a variety of sounds, e.g.
talking, music, bells clanging, rattles and whistles, and bring his
attention to the source of the sound. Don’t bombard your baby with noise
constantly. A daily variety of sound is what is needed. Repeat the sounds
he makes to encourage him.
- When calling your baby, use his name. Call him from
different directions.
- On the whole, babies with Down syndrome do not cry
much. Some people may tell you that crying is good for his lungs. This is
so, but keep yelling periods short. Prolonged crying is not good for any
baby. Babies cry for a specific reason, such as hunger, pain or
discomfort. This is one of his first ways of communication. By responding
to his cries you are teaching him that he can communicate his needs and
this will encourage later speech development.
- Encourage your baby to make sounds. Take his hands
and allow him to feel your lips move while you say “wa-wa-wa-wa”. When
your baby makes a sound, put his hand against his lips so that he can feel
there the sound is coming from. See photo 9.
- Work on imitation of sounds, especially those that
require movement of the lips and tongue, such as da-da-da-da, ba-ba-ba-ba,
ta-ta-ta-ta, wa-wa-wa-wa and ma-ma-ma-ma. Hold your baby so that he can
watch your mouth. Copy his sounds, pause for him to reply and copy him
again. When this game is established you can begin to introduce one new
sound at a time and encourage him to imitate you.
- Repetition helps a child with Down syndrome a lot,
especially when the mother’s own voice is used. You can use a tape
recorder to record your favourite repertoire of lullabies, simple stories,
the ABC or even simple words like “cat” or “dog”. This will keep your baby
quiet and happy, while he is learning at the same time.
- Tickle him and teach him to laugh.
- When speaking to your baby, speak clearly with short
sentences. Don’t use baby language, use the right word for the right
meaning, e.g. “ Mummy is going to bath Kim. Feel the water. It is warm.
We’ll rub soap on your body”.
- As you dress of feed your child, explain clearly what
you are doing. Sometimes you can repeat key words like “water” and “warm”
and specific body parts such as “arm” and “foot”. Remember repetition
makes learning easier for children with Down syndrome.
- Teach your baby to wave goodbye and say “bye-bye” or
“ta-ta”. See Photo 10
- Teach your baby to copy actions, e.g. “no-no” as a
sign to shake his head. At first when you say “no-no” you can help him by
moving his head. After plenty of practice your baby will associate “no-no”
with his head shaking in that specific way.
- Talking to a mirror is very stimulating for a baby.
- Be consistent with the words you use, e.g. “dog” must
not sometimes be “ doggie”.
- Respond to your baby’s attempts to communicate.
These attempts may be a cry, a gesture or an attempt to pronounce a word, e.g. a cry
when he is hungry is an early form of communication. By responding to it you
are teaching him that he can have an effect on his environment.
Later he may use more gestures, e.g. lift his arms when he wants to be lifted or
point to the fridge when he wants a drink. Here you can help by responding and
giving the words for his message, e.g. “You want juice?” or “Must I pick you
up?”
Remember that he will be able to understand words and sentences before he can say them.
Therefore it is very important to talk to him a lot even before he is talking
himself. When he is older you should however expect language from your child
before reacting to his gestures. This would prompt him to start talking in
order to lower his frustration level.
Research has shown that reading improves the vocabulary of the child and has a positive
influence on speaking. Reading can be done early on (2-3 years) with the use of
flash cards. These cards are ordinary pieces of paper or card board with the
names of all kinds of items written on it. These cards could be attached to the
items around the house or pasted in a book next to pictures of the items. The
written word must always be accompanied by the spoken word. Try to use full
sentences when you talk to your child with Down syndrome.
In most children with Down syndrome speech and communication seems to be delayed.
Interaction influences the way in which a person socially integrates with
people around him. Therefore parents are encouraged to set high standards
regarding the communication skills of their child with Down syndrome and always
expect more language from their child.
Is discipline important?Routine and discipline applied consistently are essential for the upbringing of all
children as it adds to their feeling of security and helps with the development
of self-discipline. However as they get older routine needs to be altered
occasionally so that they can adapt to change.
There is little difference between the discipline of a child with a disability and
one without it. The child with Down syndrome however, will need more time and
help as well as more frequent reminders to learn.
A busy, happy child is usually a well behaved child. Teach him right from wrong. Keep
your instructions simple and be consistent. Do not be afraid to set standards
for his behaviour.
People with Down
syndrome can learn and therefore inappropriate behaviour should not be
accepted. To be accepted into society
he must also abide by certain rules. Tell him what to do rather than what not
to do. Say “hold the rattle” rather than “Don’t throw the rattle”.
Teach by example –
- Show him what to do
- Practise with him the things you want him to do.
- Be consistent in your instructions and expectations
and use short, simple sentences.
Correction should be immediate, if possible, and without anger. Do not threaten, scold or
nag. Disciplining your child is a personal matter but o method of discipline
should cause permanent damage. A change in the tone of your voice will usually
work well enough.
Will our child be able to go to school?Children with Down syndrome benefit from the same community programmes as other children
do, such as play groups, nursery school classes, swimming and music lessons,
story times at the library, dance classes and other social activities.
Children learn to work with peers, make friends and enemies, get into trouble and learn
to take responsibility for their behaviour.
Once the child has reached the age of seven, schooling is compulsory. The latest
Education Legislation makes provision for learners with disabilities to be
accommodated in the mainstream. Therefore it is nowadays generally accepted
that children with Down syndrome, when given the proper support such as
curriculum adaptation (if needed), could attend regular schools.
International research has proven time and time again, that children with Down syndrome
benefit more from the normal school environment and that they can make much
better progress than has previously been expected. It has even been
scientifically proven that children with Down syndrome who have been included
in the mainstream of life from birth onwards showed an improvement in
intellectual ability when compared to children who have experienced
segregation.
Do we have to make special financial provision for our child with Down syndrome?This is something many parents are worried about. Parents in general plan for all their
children and start to put plans in place in order to assist all their children
to go to a tertiary training facility, to have a little nest egg when they get
married, etc. Your plans need be no different for your child with Down syndrome
as he most probably might need to be trained for a job that he would like to
do. Ten to one he would also like to move out of his parent’s house and live
semi-independently.
Just like with your other children it would be wise to make financial provision
through establishing a trust, a planned savings programme or a suitable
insurance policy or even a combination of these options. Contact your nearest
Association for some advice on establishing for example a Trust (which happens
to be a really good option for your whole family).
Do we receive any financial support from the government?The government only provides grants for
certain people such as elderly people or people living with disabilities and for
specific groups of children. There are a few grants that may be given to
children with disabilities: Child Support GrantChild Support grant which is more or less R160 per month.
This may be given to a person who takes care of a child under the age of 11
years, and from 1
st April 2005 for a child less than 14 years.
Families will qualify for this grant if they earn less than more or less R1 100
per month.
Care-Dependency GrantCare-Dependency Grant which is more or less R700 a
month. This is given to a person who is
taking care of a child, who is severely disabled or very ill and needs special
care because he or she cannot be left alone and needs help full time at
home. Families (including single
parents) will qualify for this grant if their joined income is less than R4 000
per month. lang=EN-ZA style=color:black;mso-ansi-language:EN-ZA>
If you want to apply for any of these grants, the government asks you to prove that
you really need the money. Contact your nearest Down syndrome Association for
more detail...
What about marriage and sexual relationships for our child?There are many misconceptions about the sexuality of people with intellectual
impairment. In general people with intellectual impairment have the same
feelings than you and I but require guidance in expressing their sexuality.
Females with Down syndrome are fertile but although the idea of a baby may seem
attractive to a woman with Down syndrome, it is unlikely that she, without
support, could responsible meet the physical, emotional and intellectual needs
of a baby as it grows.
Most women with Down syndrome are therefore given the option of some sort of birth
control. Intrusive surgical methods such as a sterilisation and hysterectomy
need not be an option. According to the Sterilisation Act, these procedures can
only be done once the person with the disability is 18 years or older, for
medical and life threatening reasons and always with the consent of the person
with the disability.
Research has shown that males with Down syndrome have a low sperm count. It has however
been recorded that a man with Down syndrome has fathered a child.
Through understanding and sympathetic counseling young people with Down syndrome can
learn to understand their own sexual development and enjoy meaningful
relationships with the opposite sex. For some individuals marriage is a
realistic goal and certainly a right. A life shared with another person or a
deep caring friendship is a need which must be recognised and respected. A
flexible and understanding approach on the part of families will help young adults
with Down syndrome to arrange their adult life in such a way that they achieve
maximum independence and dignity.
What are our child’s prospects for the future?It is not possible to predict with any accuracy what your child’s\future prospects
are. The range of functional ability amongst individual children with Down
syndrome is very wide (as it is with non-disabled children). Tests conducted at
an early age may not give a reliable indication of your child’s future
developmental progress.
The development of your child with Down syndrome is not determined by the type of
Down syndrome that he has or the number of physical characteristics which are
visible.
A common mistake made in the past was to expect too little from children with
Down syndrome, so aim high and provide him with the maximum comfortable
stimulation. As parents you have to accept the challenge of providing your
child with Down syndrome with the appropriate early intervention from birth on
and give special attention to ensure disciplined and socially acceptable
behaviour.
The child with Down syndrome who is accepted with his disability, not
overprotected, and given the opportunity of developing his potential, will be
able to adapt successfully to society, to attend school, make friends, find
work, participate in decisions which affect him, and make a positive
contribution to society. The person with Down syndrome has the same emotions
and needs as any other person and deserves the same opportunities and care.